Ibrahim Bowers “Don’t touch those!” the father commands as his child plays with the dishes on a shelf at his host’s house. A few seconds later, the father looks up from his conversation with his host, and his child is still playing with the dishes. “I told you not to touch those!” the child’s father repeats. A few seconds later, the father looks up and sees his child still playing with the dishes. The father says nothing and continues his conversation with the host. It happens all the time. Children are given orders, and when they don’t obey, the parent simply goes back to his conversation and forgets. What should
